What is a Bidet?

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••• The one without a lid is a bidet. Phototropic/Getty.

Have you ever arrived at a fine new hotel, anxious to check in and get to your accommodations as quickly as possible because you've simply got to use the bathroom? If your answer is yes, then perhaps you've encountered an additional fixture next to the toilet that is unfamiliar. It is a bidet (pronounced bih-day).

Question: What is a Bidet?

A bidet is a cleansing unit for the lower body. Travelers who stay in certain European and upscale hotels outside the Continent may find a bidet located adjacent to the toilet in the bathroom.

It often is backed by a rack that holds a small, flat towel and an easy-to-reach soap holder.

The first time you see a bidet, you may not know what it is or how to use it. However, a bidet can be very useful in achieving greater cleanliness of your genitals and nether regions than toilet paper. In fact, when a bidet is used properly, there is no need for toilet paper after you urinate or defecate.

Question: What Does a Bidet Look Like?

A bidet looks like and may resemble the adjacent toilet in style and color, but it does not have a lid and is usually somewhat smaller. Bidets come in a variety of colors and styles that, in most cases, match the toilet. A popular bidet made by Kohler, model K-4886-O is in the traditional Memoirs® style collection. It stands 15 inches tall and comes in a range of nine colors, from white to black.

Question: How Does a Woman or Man Use a Bidet?

When you are fortunate enough to have a bidet in your bathroom, take advantage of it and use it after each time you use the toilet.

On a honeymoon or romantic getaway? If you don't have time to shower, using a bidet before sex is a courtesy to your partner. After lovemaking (not that soon after; no one appreciates a lover who jumps up right after the act!), you can use it again to refresh yourself (at some point, though, you really ought to hit the shower!).

To properly use a bidet:

  1. First locate soap and place it within arm's reach.
  2.  Locate a towel for drying and only use it with the bidet. Low-nap towels are preferable.
  3. Turn on the water supply of the bidet and adjust it to a temperature that will be comfortable when sprayed on delicate tissues.
  4. Straddling the bidet in the same direction that you would sit on a toilet, lower your body over the water coming from the spout of the bidet. Adjust the direction and angle of the spout if need be.
  5. Cleanse your anal and genital regions using the soap, rinse and dry yourself with the dedicated towel.
  6. Stand up and turn off the water.
  7. Pat the areas that you have just cleansed dry.
  8. Separate the bidet soap and towel from similar items.
  9. Wash your hands in the sink.

Question: Are There Wrong Ways to Use a Bidet?

Yes! Do not use the bidet for the following:

  • A bidet is not a urinal or an additional toilet.
  • A bidet is not a cooler or a place to store ice when you don't have a bucket or are having guests.
  • A bidet is not comfortable for soaking your feet, although it can be used for washing them.
  • A bidet is not a good place to store anything, including newspapers and magazines.
  • A bidet should not be used as a sink to wash clothing.

    Should you encounter a bidet that is less than clean, do not use it and inform the management.