Many visitors to Mexico are annoyed by pushy salespeople who try to sell them things they don't want - and sometimes they are put off even when they would like to buy what's offered. Whether sitting on the beach or at an outside cafe, or just walking down the street, vendors will approach you, speak to you and offer you items or services. This is a cultural difference that can be difficult to adapt to, but there are some simple strategies that can help you manage this situation
Vendors are a fact of life in Mexico. There are a few different reasons for this. Poverty is part of the equation: many people really have to hustle to make a living, and standing out from the crowd by making their offerings readily available is one way to do that. It's also part of the culture: it's completely normal for people to approach one another on the street and speak to them.
When you first travel to Mexico, you may feel harassed by people constantly trying to sell you things, asking for money, or just speaking to you on the street when you're minding your own business. It may be hard to imagine this, but if you spend some time in this environment, you'll probably get used to it, and when you return to your home country you may feel that the people are cold and unfriendly because no one speaks to one another.
Strategies for Dealing with Vendors
There are times when vendors are annoying, no matter how you look at it. Here are a few strategies to help you deal with the annoyance of people constantly trying to sell you things.
Ignore them: There are times when you should just ignore them as far as possible, such as when you arrive at a new destination, you feel in any sort of danger, or suspect a scam. For example, at some airports in Mexico's major beach destinations, you may have to walk through a hallway with people offering various services on your way to the exit. In those cases, you should just focus on what you're doing and where you need to go. Don't worry about being rude, just block them out as best you can. You don't have to say anything or respond in any way, just keep walking.
Have a plan for when you arrive at a new destination: When you arrive at the airport or bus station and you've got a lot of people vying for your attention, it can be disarming and you may feel that you're in a vulnerable position. Arrange for transportation in advance, or look for the authorized taxi stand to purchase your taxi ticket.
Avoid eye contact: If you're not interested, avoid eye contact. If you're sitting at a street-side cafe and a vendor comes up and offers you something, say "no gracias" without looking at the person, and they will soon get the message and leave. Any further interaction may be taken as a sign of interest, and should be avoided if you would like to be left alone.
Select your spot: Choose spots where there are fewer vendors. Outdoor restaurants and cafes are prime targets for vendors. If you would like to eat or drink without interruption, choose a second-floor restaurant with a balcony or rooftop terrace where you're less likely to be approached by vendors.
Strike up a conversation: Sometimes by starting a conversation with a vendor you can learn about them and their life, and it can be an opportunity for cross-cultural understanding, even if you don't buy anything. Many of them spend their entire day walking around offering their goods to people and are happy for an opportunity to chat.
Appreciate the advantages: Changing your way of looking at vendors, you can appreciate that you don't have to go looking for everything that you want to buy: in some cases, you can sit at an outdoor cafe and the vendors will come to you - it's actually a rather convenient way to shop!