The historic seaport city of New London (population 27,500) has a rich and illustrious maritime heritage, and it today perhaps is best known for being home of the U.S. Coast Guard Academy, as well as both Connecticut College and Mitchell College. It's also the New England terminus of ferries that run regularly from eastern Long Island, in New York, across the Sound, and the largest community near the famed maritime living history museum, Mystic Seaport, which is just 10 miles east.
Finally, New London is a good base for visiting New England's two largest and swankiest casino gaming resorts, nearby Mohegan Sun (13 miles north) and Foxwoods (15 miles northeast). With so many attractions nearby, and with New London being just a one-hour drive from Providence and a two-hour drive from Boston, the area draws a good share of LGBT visitors and hosts New London Gay Pride in late August each year. Mystic Country is the region's tourism organization.
Whatever your reason for visiting the area, if you're angling to get out for a little gay clubbing, your options are a bit limited in terms of specific LGBT hangouts. Longtime gay bar Frank's Place, formerly in downtown New London, has closed. However, another New London spot very popular with gays and lesbians is O'Neill's Brass Rail (52 Bank St.), which has a welcoming staff and a cozy inviting interior. Weekly parties like Martini Madness on Mondays, Thursday "all-request" Dance Parties, and Saturday Latin drag shows rank among the favorite offerings.
This bar receives a fair share of straight clients, too. New London is small and generally liberal enough that nightspots tend to be fairly mixed.
New London also has some inviting restaurants, including beautifully designed 2 Wives Brick Oven Pizza (45 Huntington St.), an ardent ally of the local LGBT community that serves fantastic thin-crust pies; and a cool and friendly artisan coffeehouse, Washington Street Coffee House (13 Washington St.), a handsome and comfy spot that also serves delish breakfast burritos, spicy miso noodle bowls, roast-pork banh mi sandwiches, and other flavorful fare.
Mohegan Sun and Foxwoods
The impressively huge and expansive casinos a short drive north of New London are huge draws to this part of the state, and even if you're not a big gambler, they present big-name concerts, have a number of great restaurants and have beautiful hotels. Both resorts are extremely gay-welcoming, are big sponsors of New London Gay Pride in August, and have had events geared specifically to the LGBT community, and Mohegan Sun offers its employees same-sex partner benefits.
Due north of New London, Mohegan Sun comprises a glam 34-story hotel tower with spacious and sophisticated rooms; a 22,000-square-foot Elemis Spa; plenty of shopping (Coach, Dylan's Candy Bar, Sephora, and so on); three huge casinos; a concert hall drawing major acts; and a slew of notable restaurants: Frank Pepe Pizzeria, Jasper White's Summer Shack, Michael Jordan's Steak House, Bobby Flay's Bar Americain, Todd English's Tuscany, and several more. There are also several bars and dance clubs, including Avalon, which occasionally has gay events.
About 10 miles east of Mohegan Sun, Foxwoods Resort Casino is another impressive, beautifully designed resort, and this company also provides benefits to same-sex partners of employees and is a reliable friend of the gay community.
The resort books big-name concerts, including gay music acts and comedians from time to time. It's home to several different hotels, including the ritzy Grand Pequot Tower; a wide range of retail options; plenty of gaming, of course; two lavish spas; a renowned golf course; and such dining and nightlife notables as Vue 24, the Red Lantern, David Burke Prime, Alta Strada, California Pizza Kitchen, Matches Tavern, and the Golden Dragon.
Mystic and Stonington Village
Venture a bit farther east along the coast from New London, and you'll come to the village of Mystic, with its famed Mystic Aquarium and historic Mystic Seaport Museum of America and the Sea, plus several outstanding dining options. Don't miss the exceptional outdoor seafood spot, Abbott's Lobster in the Rough (117 Pearl St., Noank), for outstanding shellfish meals (it's open only spring through fall); and, right in the heart of downtown Mystic, the dapper Oyster Club (13 Water St.), a more elegant choice for seafood, with a menu that emphasizes local produce and sustainable ingredients.
It's another 5 miles east to reach tiny and charming Stonington Village, which occupies a narrow peninsula on the border with Rhode Island. If it's a peaceful, historic, seaside getaway you're seeking, yet still with proximity to gay nightlife in New London, the casinos, and Mystic Seaport, this little gem of a town is perfect (and it's home to a fantastic, gay-friendly boutique hotel, the Stonington Inn). Even if you don't stay here, it's worth popping over here to walk around this charming village and grab a bite to eat at one of the superb and inviting restaurants, such as the Water Street Cafe (143 Water St.), serving creative seafood; and the cozy and contemporary Mexican restaurant Milagro (142 Water St.).