9 Best Mother and Daughter Getaway Ideas in the US

If getting away from it all is an essential part of your plan, splurge on a stay at Blackberry Farm. This fabulously luxurious rural retreat is set on 4,200 acres in the Great Smoky Mountains near Walland, Texas. Here, the two of you can lay your responsibilities aside and indulge in the twin delights of great food and breathtaking nature. Spend quality time horse riding, hiking, cycling, or kayaking together, or simply enjoying massages and manicures at the spa. Planning to take your younger daughter? Little princesses will love the Junior Spa menu for children as young as five.

Much of the property is devoted to the Farmstead, where you can embark on tasting tours or join cooking demonstrations led by artisan bakers, cheesemakers, foragers, or preservationists. At mealtimes, you’ll get to taste the Farmstead’s bounty in the gourmet locavore dishes offered at all three exceptional on-site restaurants. Accommodation comprises a selection of elegantly decorated rooms, suites, and private cottages. Depending on which you choose, amenities range from working fireplaces to decadent soaking tubs. 

For mom-and-daughter duos who prefer the faster pace of city life, there’s no better place to base yourselves than at the Casablanca Hotel in New York City. Situated mere steps from Times Square, you’re surrounded by the very best that Manhattan has to offer. Imagine shopping sprees on Fifth Avenue, touring the latest exhibition at The Museum of Modern Art together, or getting dressed up for a Broadway show. Wherever your adventures take you, come home for the hotel’s evening wine and cheese reception, included in the reasonable nightly resort fee.

Your stay at this Art Deco treasure also includes a daily continental breakfast and all-day refreshments at sociable Rick’s Café. On the ground floor, Tony’s Di Napoli Restaurant serves classic, family-style Italian cuisine that’s sure to be a firm favorite no matter how old your daughter is. Choose a Premium Room with two queen beds and benefit from complimentary WiFi, luxury bath amenities, and an iHome TV. Double-paned windows ensure that even if the city never sleeps, you will. 

For a cultural girls’ weekend, make your way to historic Charleston in South Carolina. Founded in the 17th century, the city was once a Civil War battleground; now it’s famous for its grand colonial architecture and antebellum plantation houses. Wander arm-in-arm through the picturesque Historic District, pose for photos in front of the pastel-colored houses on Rainbow Row, or get an overview of the city’s storied past at The Charleston Museum (the oldest in America). 

Second Empire-style showpiece Wentworth Mansion is a fitting accommodation choice for would-be Southern Belles. Located steps from world-class dining and shopping on King Street, it boasts a grand colonnaded entrance and interiors bedecked with crystal chandeliers and Tiffany stained glass. It has a spa and, in keeping with the very best of Southern hospitality, includes a complimentary full breakfast at upscale Circa 1886 and an afternoon wine-and-hors d’oeuvres reception. Opt for next-door king rooms or a suite with a king bed and sleeper sofa.  

Top-rated Napa River Inn puts you at the heart of Napa’s lively Riverfront District and within walking distance of its world-class restaurants and tasting rooms. Treat one another to the hotel’s wine tasting package and embark on a full-day tour of four of the region’s best wineries; or opt for a gourmet meal on the Napa Valley Wine Train instead. Every day starts with award-winning pastries delivered directly to your room. And every evening, a local winery is featured at the hotel’s nightly tasting event. 

There are several acclaimed restaurants to choose from within the hotel’s Historic Napa Mill complex. Head to Angèle bistro for fine French fare or to Celadon for Michelin Guide-recommended global comfort food. When you need a break from Napa’s culinary delights, cement your mother-daughter bond with a visit to the on-site spa where body wraps and facials feature crushed Napa Valley grape seeds. Some floor plans offer two double beds in addition to organic bath amenities, plush terry robes, and a Keurig coffeemaker. 

A destination spa and wellness retreat set within the magnificent red rock landscapes of Sedona, Mii amo is the perfect choice for moms and daughters looking to reconnect away from the pressures of everyday life. Choose from a range of all-inclusive three, four, or seven-night journeys and spend your days attending guided meditation and yoga classes, or indulging in Native American therapies at the spa. Signature experiences include a mindfulness exercise known as canyon bathing. 

All of your meals are also included. Savor health-centric cuisine at Mii amo Café’s al fresco tables, with spectacular Boynton Canyon views in the background. The Juice Bar offers poolside service and a menu full of mouthwatering smoothies, wines, and cocktails. There are just 16 casitas at Mii amo, all with a private patio or balcony and a spa bathroom with a deep soaking tub. If you’d like to share, ask for one with two queen beds. This retreat accepts guest aged 16 and older, making it ideal for mothers with older teenage or grown-up daughters. 

Owned by the Faesslers for five generations, European-style Sonnenalp hotel understands the importance of nurturing family relationships. It’s located at the heart of Vail, and is the ideal destination for snow bunnies wanting to explore the area’s famous skiing and snowboarding runs. The hotel offers a dedicated ski concierge and guided snowshoeing adventures. After a long day on the slopes, return to the hotel for a soak in the indoor and outdoor whirlpools, or for restorative massages at Sonnenalp Spa. 

Your après ski entertainment is taken care of by an impressive choice of on-site restaurants and bars. Warm up with European favorites including cheesy raclette and spätzle at Swiss Chalet, or settle in for a mountain-style girls’ night at King’s Club, your go-to for live entertainment and cocktails in front of the roaring fire. Several of the restaurants offer kids menus for younger mother-daughter travelers. Two-bedroom suites afford a little extra privacy, a cozy shared living room with a gas log fireplace, and the welcome luxury of heated bathroom floors. 

If the two of you prefer sun and sand to snowy ski slopes, head south to The Gasparilla Inn & Club. Located in Boca Grande on the Gulf of Mexico, it promises Old Florida-style luxury, with retro plantation decor and flawless service. Spend your days at the Beach Club, searching for shells on the white sand shore or swimming and snorkeling in the warm, clear sea. Water-based activities include sunset cruises, kayak tours, and some of the best sport fishing in the Gulf for mom and daughter anglers.

For a more laid-back approach to island life, alternate your time between tanning sessions at the Beach Club pool and side-by-side treatments in the spa. The latter also offers steam rooms, saunas, and idyllic relaxation areas. Meal times are sacred on any mother-daughter trip, and you’ll spend yours by the pool or in the graceful Dining Room. Here, full breakfasts and four-course dinners are served amidst vintage furniture and potted palms. Stay in The Main Inn, or opt for a private cottage or villa.

The Argonaut Hotel on San Francisco’s historic waterfront is an especially great choice for moms with younger girls. Its nautical decor and Golden Gate views will impress you both, while child-friendly attractions like the Maritime Museum and Aquarium of the Bay are a short walk (or complimentary rental bike ride) away. Take your daughter to see the sea lions at Pier 39, to marvel at historic ships on lively Fisherman’s Wharf, or to indulge her sweet tooth at the Ghirardelli chocolate shop.  

Back at base, the hotel offers a treasure chest of toys, courtyard games, and a scavenger hunt. You can even play Xbox games together in the lobby. Meanwhile, Blue Mermaid Restaurant is that rarest of things—a truly child-friendly restaurant that’s a treat for adults as well. While your daughter samples favorites from the kids’ menu, you can indulge in gourmet seafood and fine California wines. Suites come with a king bed and a queen sleeper in the separate living room. 

Navigating the changing relationship between mom and teenage daughter can be difficult. Treat her to a stay at trendy New Orleans boutique Hotel Le Marais, and all of a sudden you won’t seem so outdated. The French Quarter is quirky enough to hold the interest of any teen, and many of its best attractions are a short walk away. Take her on a ghost and vampire tour, bond over beignets at Café Du Monde, or score serious cool points with tickets to an all-ages show at the House of Blues. 

The hotel’s grown-up vibes translate well onto Instagram (a major plus for most teenage girls). All rooms come with complimentary WiFi, a 42-inch TV, and a marble-and-granite bathroom with a proper make-up mirror. If your daughter’s big on privacy, consider getting next-door rooms. Otherwise, floor plans are available with two queen beds. The hotel has a fitness center and a heated outdoor pool but no restaurant, giving you the freedom to go out and explore NOLA’s adventurous culinary scene together.