Photos of gay bars, nightclubs, lounges, cabarets, and other nightlife options in the Mid-Atlantic region, including Delaware, Maryland, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, Washington DC, and West Virginia
DC Eagle, Washington, DC
Washington, DC's nationally recognized long-time hub of the city's gay leather scene, the DC Eagle is the largest and oldest LGBTQ bar in DC. The bar is open nightly (till 2 am generally, and until 3 on weekends, and 4am on holiday weekends), and it's, of course, popular with guys who wear and admire leather, uniforms, rubber, etc. It also has a weekly drag show, every Friday, the only night it is 18+. Now in it’s 4th location since opening in 1971, it has ample parking and is about a 10-15 minute Uber or Lyft ride from downtown DC.
Address1722 N Charles St, Baltimore, MD 21201, USA
For many years, gay and lesbian revelers have been venturing to Factory 17 (1722 N. Charles St., 410-547-8423) on Friday and Saturday nights after the booze-licensed bars and nightclubs around the city have closed (the establishment on the left in this picture). This diminutive but rocking space opens at 1:45, and the dancing (to a wide range of DJ-spun music) lasts for many hours - until the sun has risen, at the very least. For fans of the gay after-hours scene, this place is a must. The club is open to the 18-and-over set, and no alcohol is served. Given the crowd, timing, and tradition of after-hour clubs, rumors abound regarding the use by at least some guests of certain recreational mood enhancers - needless to say, the management has a strict zero-tolerance towards drug use.
Club 1722 is just around the block from Penn Station, just north of the city's main gay nightlife district, Mt. Vernon. It's right next door to Club Charles (410-727-8815), a raffishly endearingly dive bar that has an artsy, alternative following - you'll often see gays and lesbians at this 1940s-style art deco cocktail bar, although it's not a gay bar per se.
The Drinkery, Baltimore, Maryland
With its completely endearing name, comfy confines, and location within a short walk of several other fun gay bars in Mount Vernon (i.e., Jay's on Read, Leon's), The Drinkery bills itself "The Cheers" of Baltimore. Indeed, the staff is completely welcoming, and although you'll tend to find a band of merry regulars at this cozy spot, the crowd makes everybody feel quite welcome. This is less a cruise bar and more a spot to chat with friends, listen to the jukebox, and unwind after a long day.
Grand Central, Baltimore, Maryland
Since 1991, Grand Central Station, which was known until 2003 as Central Station, has been a gay-nightlife mainstay of Baltimore, and an anchor of the bar district along North Charles Street in Mt. Vernon. The gay and lesbian entertainment complex consists of several different bars and lounges, including a large dance floor as well as a separate upstairs lesbian bar called Sappho's - although everybody of both genders is welcome throughout the place. Lube wrestling, wet underwear contests, and special events are held frequently - there's pretty much always something interesting going on at this bar. The staff is friendly, and the crowd comprises a pretty good mix of professionals, students, locals, and visitors.
Jay's on Read, Baltimore, Maryland
Baltimore's definitive gay piano cabaret, Jay's on Read is a friendly, welcoming little spot that's popular with pretty much anybody who loves singing along - or even just listening - to show tunes and popular jazz standards. Pianists play on the bar's beautifully restored vintage grand piano, and happily take requests from the crowd, which although predominantly gay most nights includes plenty of others who enjoy this kind of entertainment. Jay's is in a section of Mount Vernon that contains several gay hangouts, from larger clubs like Grand Central and The Hippo to neighborhood spots like Leon's and The Drinkery.
Sappho's at Grand Central, Baltimore, Maryland
Elegant Sappho's is a cozy and beautifully decorated lesbian bar on the upper level of Baltimore's famously fun Grand Central Station gay entertainment complex. With its leather arm chairs, Oriental rugs, high-end billiards table, soft lighting, and swanky bar, this place doesn't lack for style in the least - it's the best spot in the entire compound for conversation, and there's a nice little deck off to one side, perfect if you need some air. Although definitely geared toward lesbians, this cool little lounge also pulls in plenty of guys. It's in the heart of the city's most gay-friendly neighborhood, Mt. Vernon, close to several other GLBT hangouts.
Oh Bar, Albany, New York
Among the handful of gay bars in New York's capital city, Albany, cheerful Oh Bar is one of the friendliest and arguably the most popular. It's along Lark Street, in close proximity to most of the city's other gay hangouts as well as some very good restaurants. And the amenities include a pool table and dartboard, and a lovely patio that's open year-round (although the "lovely" part applies mostly to the warmer months). The crowd is a catch-all of characters — a mix of women and men of all ages.
Excelsior, Brooklyn, New York
Park Slope is the center of Brooklyn's albeit limited gay nightlife scene, and one of the better little queer bars in the neighborhood is Excelsior, a small and generally low-keyed locals' hangout drawing a mix of Outer Borough hipsters, longtime nesting Slope-ians, and the occasional tourist out for a gay Brooklyn booze cruise. The bar is along busy 5th Avenue, near a number of other gay-popular cafes, restaurants, and cocktail bars. Another fun LGBT bar just down the street is Ginger's, which is somewhat more popular with the lesbian set but also mixed-gender. When the weather's nice, sip your cocktail on Excelsior's small back deck.
Cherry Lane Restaurant, Fire Island, New York
With a breezy deck strung with hundreds of festive, little red lights, Cherry's Pit is one of The Grove's great little hangouts, its back deck overlooking the Great South Bay and the community's main dock. Cherry's receives a steady flow of traffic from morning well into the evening, and it's a bit more guy-oriented than the other nightlife options in Cherry Grove. Come enjoy dance club vibes and frequent drag shows.
Ice Palace Nightclub (at Grove Hotel), Fire Island, New York
Cherry Grove's definitive gay and lesbian bar, the venerable, campy, and always-fabulous Ice Palace Nightclub (off Bayview Walk, near ferry dock) is part of the Grove Hotel complex, its indoor dance floor and outdoor bar overlooking the property's expansion pool. The Ice Palace is always a fun bet for cocktails and dancing, but it also hosts numerous weekly parties and events and also hosts comedy and music acts, weekend pool parties, and plenty of other special theme nights and parties. As is typical of Cherry Grove establishments, the Ice Palace draws a very eclectic mix — lesbians, gays, and straights, of all ages.
Island Breeze, Fire Island, New York
A laid-back hangout near the dock in Cherry Grove, Island Breeze serves reliable and inexpensive — if predictable — American food but has lovely views of Great South Bay and is a fun spot to meet for drinks, especially during the afternoon and early evening.
Address275 W 22nd St, New York, NY 10011-2754, USA
Since it opened well over a decade ago, the groovy and gracious Barracuda has always felt a bit like an East Village bar that slipped across town when nobody was looking. It's dark, narrow, and with a stylish, slightly arty vibe, and the crowd is more eclectic and generally with less attitude than at most of Chelsea's more uppity gay hangouts. Barracuda has earned a reputation over the years for its lively cabaret and drag shows held in the small stage-bar in the back. The cozy layout, dim lighting, and great music make it a relativley easy place to mingle and meet friends - it's cruisy without feeling overwhelming like a pick-up joint. The staff is fairly nice. The late Tammy Faye Bakker Messner appeared here to promote The Eyes of Tammy Faye, and numerous gay celebs have been spotted here over the years (including Lance Bass, whom the gossip rags claimed had a fight here with a friend in October 2007). Ultimately, this cocktail bar next to the infamous Unicorn blue-movie shop works because its friendly enough to feel like a laid-back neighborhood bar but hip and stylish enough to draw a steady flow of attractive, intelligent guys.
Address86 E 4th St, New York, NY 10003-9041, USA
One of the longest-running gay bars in the East Village, the Boiler Room has seen booms and busts over the years, its popularity waxing and waning for any number of reasons. Lately, this unfussy cruise bar drawing a mixed-age crowd seems to be doing quite well, drawing consistent crowds who appreciate its pool table, a cozy bar with nice selection of beers and cocktails, and comfy sofas, and awesomely eclectic jukebox. More guys than girls come here, but it's still definitely a mixed-gender spot overall. It's also pretty close to New York University (NYU), and has always been popular with students and staffs from there, as well as with all the gay kids in Brooklyn who come over on the F train (the subway stop is fairly close).
Club 82/Bijou Cinema, New York, New York
Address82 E 4th St, New York, NY 10003, USA
This basement space set very discreetly behind a simple, unmarked door has quite a history with New York's gay community. From 1958 until 1978, Club 82 was a beloved drag cabaret and glam-rock venue made famous by the likes of David Bowie, Lou Reed, Harvey Fierstein, Blondie, and the New York Dolls — in this sense, it's one of the more important sites of gay history in the East Village, and it even has its own fan site, which celebrates its colorful past. It then became an indie-film theater, and in the early 1990s, the dark, underground (figuratively and literally — it's in a basement) space became a quite popular gay adult theater and sex club called the Bijou Cinema (although still known by many as Club 82). More recently, it's been closed at different times, but it was spruced up at one point and now continues to be a gay sex club. (If you're having trouble finding it, it's just off 2nd Avenue, its doorway behind the incongruously dapper and lovely French bistro, Belcourt).
This is a quirky and happily sleazy little spot that's especially popular after the bars closed — it used to be open 24/7, but more recent reports suggest it now closes by 5 or 6 in the morning (I last stopped by around 1 a.m. in May 2011, and it was open and still charging a $10 admission). You enter through the ominous unmarked door, descend the brightly lit stairs. Inside there's a 48-seat cinema that used to show gay porn and more recently has played conventional movies, some with an arty bent. Forming an L-shape behind the cinema area is a corridor lined with private booths that contain monitors showing gay porn. These are basically walk-in-closet-size booths — no beds or facilities to speak of. Guys hang out in these rooms, cruise the corridors, etc., etc. Off the main corridor and theater, there's also a TV lounge, some rental lockers, and a bar no longer serving drinks. There's something strangely and endearingly retro about the entire set-up. That being said, it's sometimes hard to confirm this place is open, so if anyone gets word it's shuttered again, please let me know.
The Cock Bar, New York, New York
Along a tiny row of unsavory and thoroughly enjoyable gay bars on 2nd Avenue in the East Village, The Cock had actually been located on Avenue A for quite a few years, where it earned a reputation for embracing the fine art of cruising (and dark-room hand jobs among strangers). In its current locale, this late-night, rooster-themed bar with voyeuristic bathrooms and a dark, sweaty, panting vibe continues to celebrate the virtues of good old-fashioned sleaze. Bars along the same strip include Urge and, owned by the same peeps, DTox. And around the corner, there's more fun to be had at the Boiler Room gay bar.
Elmo Lounge, New York, New York
With a faintly retro, unmistakably swank look — mirrored walls, curvy periwinkle chairs, candy-striped banquettes — recalls the lounge of a Latin American airport circa 1966, Elmo is as sure a sign as any that Chelsea's more see-and-be-seen gay dining scene has shifted steadily in recent years east from 8th to 7th Avenue. To be sure, there are plenty of queer-date restaurant possibilities on both of these avenues, but 7th is a bit more serious, food-wise, with the likes of Elmo and others along the stretch, ranging from breezy bistro Le Singe Vert to contemporary sushi favorite Momoya.
Elmo is both a restaurant — serving lunch, dinner, and weekend brunch — and, at the basement level, a decadent lounge-cabaret that hosts live music, theater, parties, and assorted merry celebrations. The food is consistently well-prepared and tending toward contemporary-comfort fare: watermelon and mozzarella salad with pine nuts and yellow tomatoes, grilled yellowfin tuna sandwiches with wasabi mayo, home-style meatloaf with scallion-mashed potatoes — plus burgers, fish tacos, and a few pastas. With most entrees priced well under $20, and service surprisingly attentive and down-to-earth for such a scene-y spot, Elmo effectively fits the bill for all sorts of occasions, from brunch with a loose-knit posse of friends to dinner before a show at the nearby Joyce Theater or Dance Theater Workshop.
Gym Bar, New York, New York
"Join the Gym," proclaims the website for Chelsea's friendly and immensely popular gay sports bar, aptly called, Gym. The spacious, well-lighted, and relatively low-keyed bar with a terrace (used primarily by smokers) overlooking busy 8th Avenue is sandwiched between the Joyce Theater and Pride NYC gay DVD and sex shop. It's refreshing that New York City has a gay sports bar after many years without one. That being said, the sports theme is always especially apparent - it feels just like a pleasant and nicely laid-out gym and has a very nice pool table, exposed-brick walls, wood floors, and large TV screens that do sometimes air sporting events. But you're not going to find the space festooned with trophies, banners, and sports memorabilia, which is just fine with its regulars, who appreciate the relaxed yet still somewhat sophisticated look of the place. In addition to hosting members of various gay New York sports teams, the bar draws a diverse bunch, especially in terms of age - you'll see all generations here, including plenty of butch men in jeans and T-shirts (it's not dressy at all, even after work). And the scene is quite friendly by Chelsea standards. One nice thing about Gym is that it draws decent-size early in the evening, and even during afternoons on weekends. The staff is very friendly, too.
Lucky Cheng's, New York, New York
Longtime drag cabaret and dinner theater Lucky Cheng's isn't a gay bar per se, but rather a flamboyant, campy restaurant with a comical drag cabaret show and smashingly costumed drag queens who are your performing waitresses. The restaurant-club is very popular with straight tourists (and bachelorette parties) seeking a quirky and outlandish night on the town, but most nights you'll see some GLBT patrons, too. Of course, Lucky Cheng's is friendly and fun toward everybody, and the food is reasonably good with a menu and dishes created by celebrity chef, Saul Montiel.
Drag Dinner is served Fridays and Saturdays, with the dinner show experience lasting about two hours. The three-course plated prix-fixe dinner menu changes seasonally offering the freshest ingredients Mother Nature can provide. Guests can currently select entrees such as Slow Roasted Half Chicken with Caramelized Carrots and Roasted Potatoes, Pumpkin Ravioli in Sage Butter Sauce, or Grilled Hanger Steak with Bordelaise Sauce, Mashed Potatoes, Sauteed Green Beans and Spinach.
Lucky Cheng's has an interesting reputation in NYC's gay community — on the one hand, it's fun and kind of silly, and the glamorous and high-camp aspects of the place make it a favorite of people from all over the city, including more than a few celebs and more recently fans of RuPaul's Drag Race. On the other hand, the gay scene in the New York tends toward young, hipster-ish, and anti-commercial, so if you chat with neighborhood queers, many of them will claim never to have been to Lucky Cheng's, and some may refer to it with a certain sense of reverse-snobbery or derision. I actually lived directly across the street from Lucky Cheng's in the East Village for two years and never happened to go inside, but have since had drinks there and thought it quite fun, if nothing like other gay hangouts in the neighborhood.
Lucky Cheng's boasts an illustrious alumni including actresses Laverne Cox and Jamie Clayton, RuPaul's Drag Race stars Ongina, Bob the Drag Queen, Thorgy Thor, Yuhua Hamasaki, and the current Miss Gay America 2020, Pattaya Hart.
A rotating roster of Drag talent from all over the world make special guest performances weekly. Please check Lucky Cheng's website for show calendar.
Nowhere Bar, New York, New York
Although prominently located along busy East 14th Street, the northern border of the East Village, Nowhere has sort of steadily mozied along beneath the downtown gay-bar radar since it opened in 2006 or so. Some (tall) boys lament the low ceilings and find it cramped, and the crowd — by most reports — varies a lot from night to night, from cute and sexy in that East Village ironic-hipster way to dour and aloof (which kind of works in this part of town anyway). You'll generally find a mix of lesbians and gay guys, but as with most NYC queer bars, it's mostly guys. There's also a pool table.
I liked it very much during my visit and found the staff easygoing and pleasant, the drinks affordable, and the location handy. It's the closest gay bar in the East Village to Union Square and Gramercy Park, and because it's near subway stations and numerous bus lines, it's a good place to begin or end an East Village bar crawl.
Music is supplied via a pretty cool juke box or DJs, and there's a strange and freakishly dwarfy "back room" lounge in, well, the back room, that's enticing if you just want to have a quiet conversation or size up a potential trick in very bad lighting. The venerable Artichoke pizza joint is practically next door, in case you get the munchies. Nearby gay bars include Phoenix, Section 8, and The Hose.
Phoenix Bar, New York, New York
If the East Village has an all-around, much-loved, go-to gay bar, it's the Phoenix, which opened a few years back and takes its name from the long-ago Phoenix gay bar that used to be a few blocks away and was never anywhere near as popular. Part of the bar's lure is that it's relatively large as EV gay bars go, with a main bar area (pictured here, late on a midweek-night, hence the uncrowded appearance), a pool table with small seating area in back, decent-size bathrooms down a flight of stairs, and a small conversation nook around the corner from the main bar. The bartenders are efficient and friendly here, the bar typically packed with pretty good-looking guys of all ages (the median age skews slightly older here than elsewhere in the East Village).
Some say that as Phoenix has gained in popularity over the years, it's become the one gay hangout in the East Village that feels a bit more like the meat-market-y and rather preppier haunts of Chelsea, but this is still very much a down-home, low-attitude hangout where the guys (it's mostly a male crowd, but very female-friendly) dress chiefly in jeans, black shoes, and T-shirts. There's still nothing at all fancy or upscale about Phoenix - it's just an inviting gay bar with excellent music (from the juke) and plenty of fellow queer-scenesters to gab with and gawk at.
Stonewall Inn, New York, New York
New York City's iconic Stonewall Inn is where the legendary Stonewall Rebellion took place on June 28, 1969 — an event that became the impetus for Gay Pride parades and festivals now held all over the world. The once dive-y gay bar is in the heart of the colorful Christopher Street section of Greenwich Village, just opposite Sheridan Square and within a short stroll of several other gay hangouts. The bar's popularity has waxed and waned over the years, but new owners have given it a major makeover, and the Stonewall is now enjoying a resurgence.
Following New York's passage of Gay Marriage, hundreds of GLBT New Yorkers and their allies gathered outside the bar to celebrate on the eve of New York City Gay Pride. And following the tragic attack on Pulse Nightclub in Orlando, the bar once again became a gathering point for the community to express its support, unity, and determination to stand together in the face of violence against LGBT persons.
Therapy, New York, New York
One of the first bars to solidify NYC's Hells Kitchen neighborhood as a bona fide gay-nightlife destination, Therapy remains of Manhattan's trendier GLBT cocktail lounges. The bi-level space with elegant wood-slat walls and chic furniture is well-regarded for its creative drinks (try the Oral Fixation, with Stoli Orange, mint, fresh lime, and orange juice), slick music, attractive crowds, and extremely popular happy hour. The kitchen turns out light bar snacks, too - from calamari to hummus platters.
Woody's Bar, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Woody's Bar, in Philadelphia's so-called "gayborhood", is one of the city's long-standing gay hangouts. The bilevel space has a series of lounges and rooms, plus a decent-size upstairs dance floor - the entire space received a major makeover recently.
Images, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Address965 Liberty Ave, Pittsburgh, PA 15222-3701, USA
A classic gay video lounge and happy hour bar in downtown Pittsburgh, Images has developed a reputation over the years as one of the city's leading places to mingle, knock back beer and cocktails, sing karaoke on certain evenings, and hobnob with locals and visitors. The bar opened in 1994 but underwent an impressive renovation in 2006 - it's along a strip of fun gay hangouts that also include 941 Saloon, Club Hot, There Video Lounge, and Pegasus. The crowd at Images is mostly male but quite welcoming of women, and tending toward the young professional and collegiate set but with plenty of exceptions.
O-Zone, Wheeling, West Virginia
In downtown Wheeling, West Virginia, you'll find the city's most prominent gay bar, a friendly and attitude-free gay dance club called The O-Zone. The bar is right along the main drag of this city situated on a narrow strip of West Virginia land between Pennsylvania and Ohio (it's a short drive from I-70, the main route from Pittsburgh to Columbus). There's karaoke several nights per week, and drinks are reasonably priced. The crowd is mixed lesbian and gay men.