Choosing the Best Airline Seats Together

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Whether you're flying for the first time or the 500th, choosing seats that the two of you will occupy on an airplane is an important part of the pre-flight process — and it can have a significant impact on your pleasure in the air. Although traveling in premium economy or business class is is certainly deal, those larger seats may not be affordable. So the following can help you in selecting the best economy-class seats as a couple interested in maximum comfort on a plane ride of any duration.

  1. Choose your seats as soon as possible so that you have the widest selection of locations from which to pick. Normally, you can do this when you buy tickets online. (Exceptions are when your flight is in the distant future or you select a flight on an airline that does not display seats or offer a choice before boarding). Before you click "purchase," consider your choices.
  2. Traveling as a couple, your best bet is to secure two seats together on one side of the airplane. Before you choose, decide which of you is a "window" person and which is an "aisle." (Of course, you can switch during the flight.) Window seats offer the best views and a wall to lean against but make some people feel claustrophobic. Aisle seats offer a little bit more room to stretch out. But it's more difficult to sleep because flight attendants and other passengers may jostle you as they make their way up and down the aisle. Another option, if both of you want to sit on the aisle, is to choose two seats across from each other. The drawback is, you won't know who your seat mates will be.
  1. Some airplane seat locations simply are better than others. The better ones offer more legroom; the worst ones are next to the bathroom and don't recline. When you're ready to select your seats, go to Seat Guru, navigate to your airline and then identify the type of craft assigned to your flight. You'll get a schematic of the plane that lists good seats, seats with drawbacks, and poor seats to help guide your decision. 
  2. Understand that airlines fly different types of equipment, with different seating configurations. Air Canada's modern and comfortable Embraer jets, for example, only have four seats per row, two on either side of the aisle. British Airways' Boeing 737s have six seats per row, with three on either side of the aisle — making one out of every three seats the dreaded center one. Larger jets, such as American Airlines' Boeing 777, have nine seats across with only two aisles separating them. Pity the poor travelers stuck in the middle section, surrounded by crying babies on both sides!
  1. It's important to pay attention to the kind of equipment the airline is using on your flight for another reason: Seat width. One of the most uncomfortable aircraft to fly anywhere is the Boeing 737: On most of these planes, the seat width between arm rests is a measly 17 inches across, which squeezes all but the narrowest bottoms. Even when flown on a short hop, most 737s are misery-inducing. However, Lufthansa's economy class seats provide a relatively generous width of 18 inches — and that extra inch of space does make a difference.
  1. Seat pitch is another consideration, and one that taller travelers ought to pay extra attention to avoid flying in the fetal position. Measured in inches, seat pitch is the distance between the back of one seat and the front of the one behind it. More is better. On any plane, the best seats for long-legged travelers are bulkhead seats, which have no seats directly in front. JetBlue offers "Even More Legroom" seats in certain rows that have a 38-inch pitch. These seats can be reserved for a small extra fee per flight segment. All other seats on this airline have a pitch of 34 inches, still relatively generous.
  1. Exit row seats offer a bit more legroom. Some airlines choose extra for seats in this location. Although you can't always select exit row seats online, you can request them at the airport. Do so if you have cool heads, are physically capable, and are willing to follow flight attendants' instructions to help out in case of an emergency.
  2. Front or back? That's another decision to make. Travelers who sit closer to the front will exit the plane earlier once it arrives at its destination. If you're changing planes and don't have a long layover, choose seats as close to the front as you can. Travelers who sit in the back sometimes get to board the plane first, which gives them first dibs on stowing carry-on luggage overhead.
  1. Think you picked the wrong seats? Go back to where you purchased your airplane tickets online, log in, and choose another set. At this writing, that was one change airlines still allowed customers to make free of charge. Just do it sooner than later, which will give you a wider choice of available seats.
  2. Despite all the hard work you've put into choosing airplane seats, you may still find them assigned to other passengers! To prevent that from happening, check in online 24 hours prior to your flight. That tells the airline you intend to show up, and the seats you selected will be secured.


    • If you couldn't get the seats you wanted online, get to the airport early on your day of departure and request a change. Some airlines block available seats till the last minute.
    • Wish you could fly in premium, business or first-class? Airlines that have empty seats sometimes allow coach passengers to upgrade at the airport for less than the regular cost of one of those seats. Let the gate agent know if you're interested.
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